by Josh Orendi
Those that are familiar with the Dynamic Recruitment message know that Member Positioning is one of the “cylinders” for powering your “names list” with leads from your “prospect pool.” Too much lingo? No problem. Let me try again.
Fact: People do not join fraternities or sororities. People join people! Relationships drive results.
Fact: You can’t recruit who you don’t know.
Fact: Most of the high quality men and women on your campus don’t realize the value of belonging to a fraternity or sorority.
Fact: Those high quality men and women are not typically signing up for formal recruitment.
Fact: Most of your current chapter leaders were not looking for a Greek experience when they came to campus.
Fact: Most of your current chapter leaders can name one person (literally one person) that is primarily responsible for them making the decision to join.
Repeat Fact: People do not join fraternities or sororities. People join people! Relationships drive results.
In these critical first few weeks of school, you have a powerful opportunity to impact your recruitment throughout the year. THE POWER OF PROXIMITY. While other chapters are asking, “how do we get more prospects to the house,” try a different mindset. Ask: “How can we get our members out of the house?” Begin thinking of creative ways to avoid letting your members get comfortable at home and fall into bad habits. Consider ways to get members engaged on campus in locations that are ripe with top prospects. Here are a few creative ideas:
- $100 of the Rush budget in quarters. Offer to pay the laundry bill of any member that will do their laundry in the freshmen dorms. Bonus tip: Sunday is usually the most popular day in the laundry room. This is a great icebreaker that almost always leads to conversation. Proximity matters.
- Offer to host a reception or bbq on campus for transfer students.
- Choose 5 large student organizations that tend to attract top non-Greek members. Contact the organization president to ask how your members can sign up. At chapter, ask every member to choose one of those 5 to attend the group’s next meeting on campus.
- Take the 5 organizations above and make it a mandatory part of your new member education program to actively participate in one of those groups.
- Choose a small or dying student organization on campus that you’d be excited about reviving. Rally several of your members to take over the club. Encourage non-Greek freshmen and sophomores to join the club. By proximity, you’ll build relationships that often turn into membership. Bonus tip: Clubs get money from student activities/government. If the club is mostly your members your next chapter retreat was just funded by the student body.
- Partner with a freshmen club or non-Greek student group for Saturday’s tailgate.
- Watch Sunday/Monday football in the freshmen dorm lobby. Buy pizza and you’ll attract a crowd. Bonus tip: Run a fantasy league or bracket and you’ll be able to collect contact info.
- RA’s are gatekeepers. Ask for an opportunity to present for 5 minutes followed by 5 minutes of Q&A at the next hall meeting. You’ll be seen as the “expert” on Greek life by those freshmen.
- Got smart members? Group tutoring session for freshmen seminars and general education classes is a great way to meet a lot of freshmen committed to improving their grades. Proximity matters.
- Got athletes? Hosting tournaments on campus or in freshmen dorm works great for building relationships. Even semi-sports like throwing bags, horse shoes, or foosball can work.
- Got wanna-be athletes? Pick an obscure sport and begin playing it on the quad or a central part of campus with a lot of traffic. Pull in people that walk by. Bonus tip: Being confident and having fun while making an ass of yourself can draw lots of attention and tons of new friends.
You get the idea. It’s time to build the expectation that our “social” fraternity/sorority expects our members to be “socially excellent.”
Remember: Quantity of Relationships Drives Quality of Membership.









Example: You are telling me about how great your chapter is by listing off dates and facts. “In 2003, we won best chapter on our campus.” “We have the best intramural inner tube water polo team for the past three years.” “We care about grades because our members log five hours a week in monitored study halls.” (Those are some really inspiring statistics).
This week in particular I find my mind wandering almost every waking hour towards our Best of the Best Assessment. This assessment is a launching point for the company’s Research and Assessment Board. We believe that by doing this assessment, we will have information and a process by which, potentially, member selection can be based for fraternities and sororities that want to choose the most cutting edge way to create a truly high QUALITY organization.
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My favorite part of the day, as hinted at in the title, was when a sorority woman named Brigitte (it’s a French name, she told me) started offering free hugs to everyone that walked past.
chose to provide an opportuity for non-Greeks to learn about how to be SOCIAL (and Socially Excellent). Some of my favorite lines from the Greeks promoting the program to passersby were, “Do you like friends? I do. Come to this program tonight and make some.” Or, “Come to this social networking event tonight - you might meet your new best friend, or your future LOVER!”
She went on to explain that her chapter struggled to find a theme that was “edgy” and competitive, and she was convinced that the clothing selection wasn’t “girly” enough. They’d thrown out all the previous ideas and were replacing a few of their work-week activities to focus on outfit selection and theme ideas. This was clearly important to them, and it showed.
Let me be clear, there is a time and a place to be concerned about how our outward appearance reflects our inner beauty. We should all strive to be put together and give the best first impression possible, and yes, sometimes this involves Spanx. Having said that—while wearing Spanx or not, make sure you are embracing your chapters identity and not trying to portray something you aren’t.
When the girls finally arrived, the recruitment chairman would stand on a chair and point to each guy that was visiting and introduce him to the group. Although the focus of the event was to meet the potential new members, this was always challenged by the laughter from funny commercials on TV. Meanwhile, Big Al would dip into the food table and grab his own bucket of wings. Food was at a premium after kick off. Though we all wanted to meet the new guys, no one could spare a moment during the excitement of the intense game.
I’m very excited about our recent announcement about the annual 

